Just finished listening to a presentation by Caroline Myss. It’s so fun that her last name is what it is, as she is a MYSSTIC. LOL. She made such a great statement. She noted that “healing requires we take responsibility”. When we do this, we are looking inward. But in our society, we associate being in a relationship with being needy — that we actually don’t qualify for a relationship UNLESS we are needy, it’s a prerequisite. We don’t have great, or even good, model for relationships in wholeness. Those of us who had mentors that modeled such are blessed and apparently, rare. Your choice was enlightened.